Ronald Joseph "Big Ronnie" DeFeo, Sr. was born on November 16, 1930, to
parents Rocco and Antoinette DeFeo. When he
was younger, Big Ronnie was slender, handsome, and had a powerful gaze
reminiscent of Rudolph Valentino’s. With his suave looks, he was able to
attract the attention of Louise Marie Brigante.
Born on
November 3, 1931 to Michael and Angela Brigante, Louise had wanted to
pursue a modeling career. She was beautiful enough to hobnob with the
best, including legendary singer Mel Torme.
After a
brief courtship, Big Ronnie and Louise got married. Since the Brigantes
disapproved of Big Ronnie, they cut all ties with the newlyweds until September 26, 1951, when Ronald Joseph DeFeo Jr.
was born.
Growing
up, Butch DeFeo had it hard. Because Butch was the first born and a boy,
his father expected more from him. And Big Ronnie was not afraid to
discipline Butch in the cruelest fashion. One minute, he would hug his
son; the next minute, he would throw him across the room.
Louise’s brother, Michael Brigante Jr., would later testify at the DeFeo
trial about an incident he witnessed when Butch was two years old. He
said, “We were all sitting down in the basement watching TV, and, I
don’t know, the boy had done something. All of a sudden, he stood up,
the father, and just pushed the boy this way into the wall. The boy
banged his head or part of his shoulder or something.”
Butch
was not an only child for long. On July 29, 1956, Louise gave birth to a
daughter, Dawn Theresa DeFeo. A few years later, on August 16, 1961,
Louise gave birth to Allison Louise DeFeo, and then again on September
4, 1962 to Marc Gregory DeFeo.
Sometime after the birth of Marc, Louise decided to leave her husband
for reasons that remain unclear. To get his wife back, Big Ronnie
decided to put his writing talents to good use. Needing
to express his love for his wife, Big Ronnie co‑wrote a song called “The
Real Thing.” And in 1963, Jazz great Joe Williams recorded the song for
his album titled “One Is a Lonesome Number.”
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